The balance you have or do not have in your life is a reflection of the balance between your thoughts, beliefs and perspective. How you perceive your life, your reality plays an important role in experiencing balance. So many of us look to finding or seeking that balance through what is happen in our lives without realizing that is it s a mere reflection of what is going on inside of us.

We often hear “Failure is not an option” but do we really understand what that means? We often think it means that we must succeed at whatever it is we are trying to achieve. We tend to have a perspective that we either fail or succeed and that this is the only option we have. Achieve a goal…success! Do not achieve a goal…fail!  We are a results driven society. It is all about achievement, attaining our goals and if we do not we see ourselves as a failure. We also fear that others may see us as a failure and that drives us even more to succeed.

Now there is a thought provoking theme if we have ever heard one. Fear! Fear seems to be all around us on a daily basis. It is thrown in our faces no matter where we look, listen or rest! Fear! What are we to do? STOP! STOP for a quick minute and take a new perspective.

Do you realize that you are a creator being? Do you realize that everything you have experienced to this point in your life you have created? Do you realize that from this point forward within your life everything you experience in your life you will create? Some great and profound questions, as they give all of us a chance to truly reflect not just upon our life, our journey but on ourselves as well. When was the last time you took that quick minute to do this type of reflection? Probably been some time if you are truly honest with yourself.

Do you know the answer to this question? Or do you have to think about it for a moment or even a couple of moments? More than likely you are in the latter group as most individuals truly do not know what they are wanting in life. Sure, you may be able to rattle off one or two "feel good" items such as a new car or house. Those items, we believe, are societal conditioning desires – keeping up with the Jones' thing. But what is it that you are truly wanting, that you truly have a heartfelt desire to experience?

Spend some time pondering that title and you will begin to understand how and why so many people begin to derail themselves when it comes the use of the Law of Attraction. Yes, rationalizing and making excuses are the number one reasons people do not see the success they are looking for when it comes to the desired manifestations from the Law of Attraction.

Each time you have a thought, you actually are making that thought real as you are bringing that specific thought into your physical reality. In other words you are giving birth to that idea, that desire. Once you do this, you have started the process in which you make your thought real. You have your thought, which then begins to take on a life of its own as it becomes an idea and that thought now takes on feeling which as we know sets the Law of Attraction into motion and begins to set forth the steps you need to take to bring that once simple thought into reality as a full fledge manifestation and experience of a desire.

Every experience you have, every manifestation is a co-creative experience. While we begin the creation process others play their role in the manifestation and each experiences it in a different but complimentary way.

So often we have desires and dreams and while we are great at creating in our imaginations but somehow they never seem to manifest. We all need to learn how to live and be who we really are so that we can manifest and experience our dreams and desires.

You are invited to give a listen to our show on finding the secret to living your dream.

 Life coaches Mary Anne and David dialog on the unique relationship we all have with "self". We often do not take the time to listen to "self". David and Mary Anne will be giving you tips on how to develop this relationship so that you put "self" back into the equation of your life.
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